Jan 20 – Feb 18 · air · ruled by Uranus (traditional: Saturn)

Aquarius in love

independent · original · friend-first

Aquarius loves in its own original way. Ruled by Uranus (and traditionally Saturn), this air sign wants a partner who's a best friend first and a fellow free thinker always.

How Aquarius loves

Flirting

Through friendship and big ideas. Aquarius will talk about the universe with you and see how your mind works.

Falling in love

Through connection of the mind. Aquarius falls for people who are themselves, unapologetically.

Commitment

When it keeps its independence. A committed Aquarius is loyal, open-minded and full of surprises.

When they fight

With detachment. Aquarius steps back to think, which can feel cold. Give it space, then talk it through.

Best matches for Aquarius

  • GeminiNatural harmony (trine) · 90/100
  • LibraNatural harmony (trine) · 90/100
  • AriesEasy friends (sextile) · 80/100

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Aquarius in every love style

Your sun sign is one layer. Your love style is another. Here's how Aquarius shows up in each of the eight.

The Lighthouse
An Aquarius Lighthouse loves in their own original way, but their friendship-first loyalty is rock solid.
The Co-Pilot
An Aquarius Co-Pilot wants a partner who's also a best friend and an accomplice in unusual ideas.
The Moon Keeper
An Aquarius Moon Keeper values independence and a mind-to-mind connection above everything.
The Wanderer
An Aquarius Wanderer is a free thinker who loves without possessiveness and expects the same.
The Hearth
An Aquarius Hearth creates a quirky, open home where friends are always welcome.
The Wildfire
An Aquarius Wildfire brings electric energy and unusual ideas to every date.
The Poet
An Aquarius Poet loves unconventionally and dreams of a love that changes the world, or at least the weekend.
The Comet
An Aquarius Comet is original and independent, loving in ways nobody predicts.

Aquarius in love: FAQ

Is Aquarius emotionally distant?

Aquarius processes feelings through thought. It cares deeply, just in its own way.

How do you win an Aquarius?

Be a friend first, respect its freedom and share your weirdest ideas.

What does Aquarius need in love?

Friendship, independence and room to be different.

For entertainment purposes only. Love & Astro doesn't predict the future or replace professional advice.